After having to fully argue my first point, I realize I took kind of a soft position that may be hard to reasonably argue against. We can stick to this if you think it would still be fun, or we can shift to a hard claim, "married couples should have to apply for a license to have children at all, under threat of punitive action". Ill take the pro, for fun...otherwise heres the first argument...
Parenting is one of the highest-stakes roles in society, yet it requires no demonstrated baseline knowledge. We already require competency for far lower-risk activities like driving, teaching, or adopting a child. At the same time, the state already intervenes in parenting after harm occurs through abuse and neglect laws. This proposal simply shifts part of that effort upstream.
The requirement is minimal and non-coercive. It is a short, free course covering basic infant safety, legal responsibilities, and early development, completed during pregnancy or shortly after birth. It does not prevent anyone from having a child, impose criminal penalties, or mandate any medical decisions. The only condition is that access to enhanced public benefits is tied to completing this basic competency step.
There is strong evidence that early parenting support improves outcomes. Structured programs that begin during pregnancy and continue into early childhood have been shown to reduce abuse and neglect, improve child health and development, and produce long-term social benefits. Even more basic education programs consistently improve parenting practices and the home environment. Public policy is not judged by perfect compliance, but by whether it reduces harm at scale. Increasing baseline knowledge across the population does exactly that.
The principle is simple. If the state is already involved after harm occurs, and if minimal education can reduce that harm before it happens, then requiring a basic competency step tied to optional public benefits is a proportionate and justified policy.
The con position must show why preventing avoidable harm in this limited, non-punitive way is not worth doing, or why no level of improved outcomes would justify even this minimal requirement.