You seem to thoroughly misunderstand these frameworks. There is such a thing as descriptive relativism. This means that different people, cultures, or groups can have different moral beliefs or values. This is obviously true.
Then, there is such a thing as metaethical relativism. This is what would be claimed by moral relativism. It says, not only do these different beliefs and values exist, they're all true. In other words, it means that abortion is wrong and it is also okay, but only for the right perspectives, not in general. This is different from rejecting morality and this is different from calling it arbitrary.
I'm saying limiting it to perspectives in the first place is a fundamental ontological error. I'm saying that because that is not how things can be true. Regardless of what perspectives could believe or value, things are true regardless.
So, when you say, "Whatever, it is all relative as demonstrated by its existence which you have to prove it is not relative but just set in stone somewhere in some type of reality where subjectivism doesn't occur at all."
You are arguing for descriptive relativism when I never rejected it. Obviously, the usage of morality is relative to what uses it. It changes between and depends on groups or different individuals. But, you haven't managed to argue for metaethical relativism, which would say that not only is the existence of moral beliefs relative, the validity of them is as well.
You asked, "Is it true that a person that says abortion is wrong like saying a particular book read is bad, is related to that person saying it?"
Yeah, that seems true to me! But, this is only, and barely, a defense of descriptive relativism. Moral relativism says that they are correct when they say the book is bad.
Then, you say, "It is true that a moral or two is related to the so called moral sayer, maker and or giver. Whatever which is based on is subject to it by being its subject which is subjectivism."
This seems to be essentially the same argument. I have not rejected that when someone invokes morality that their usage relates or is relative to them.
Then, you say, "All this is subjective. Doesn't rule out any subjectivism. You've just illustrated several points of view which is subjectivism."
You completely missed the point. I showed how subjective beliefs don't perfectly track reality. Moral subjectivism suggests otherwise. I'm not denying that subjective beliefs exist. I'm saying that not every subjective belief constitutes the true.
Then, you say, "I believe we agree so called morality is subjective. People that say it is objective is also subjective."
No, we do not agree, and based on what I've seen you say, I think neither of us think it is subjective. I'm not trying to argue for objective morality. Whether the usage of morality is subjective (it obviously is) is irrelevant to whether its validity is subjective.
Then, you say, "All relative and subjective, no doubt, right."
Only descriptively.
The rest of your message is essentially the same mistake.
I'll try to clarify something since it is quite important.
Moral beliefs are relative: We both accept this but this is irrelevant
Moral beliefs truly exist: We both accept this but this is irrelevant
Moral beliefs are true: This is closer to what these frameworks mean, and you haven't defended it, nor does it seem like you would want to
I'll give a specific example
"abortion is evil"
Let's ask some questions
Is this belief relative to the individual? Yes (descriptive relativism)
Is it true that this belief exists? Yes (basic empirical fact)
Is it true that abortion is evil? Irrelevant (ethical inquiry)
Is whether abortion is evil relative to perspectives? (Metaethical inquiry)
Focus on the last question. Moral relativism says yes.
Moral relativism means "yes, whether abortion is evil is relative to perspectives"
What does this mean? I'll start with what it doesn't mean.
This does not mean that:
People have their own beliefs
Beliefs are relative to particular individuals, cultures, or groups
So...what does it mean?
"yes, whether abortion is evil is relative to perspectives"
Imagine two people:
Person 1: I think abortion is wrong
Person 2: I think abortion is okay
Moral relativism means that both of them are correct.
How can they both be correct?
Moral relativism means they are correct to and for themselves, or to whatever group or culture they are a part of.
So, moral relativism means that abortion cannot be wrong in general or objectively wrong. It means that it's only wrong when perspectives decide it is wrong.
Remember, this is not just an acknowledgement that people disagree.
So, I still believe that you actually oppose moral relativism and moral subjectivism. Based on our previous debate, I would say you either believe in moral nihilism or objective morality.
I'll give an example of amoral relativism to illustrate my point.
Person 1: I think the moon is made of cheese!
Person 2: No, it's made of rocks and dust.
Moral relativism, rather than just acknowledging a difference between the beliefs, would be like saying they're both correct.
In other words, it would like if the moon was made of cheese, but only for a culture that believes it to be true that it is made of cheese. I would imagine you do not support that.