Why Ignorant People Are Dangerous to Those Around Them (Parkour Story!)

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One time when I was in high school I was in this nearby suburban neighborhood taking a stroll on the sidewalk. There was a section of the path where on one side there was a drop that fell to a stream below and was surrounded by a few trees on either side of the water. The other side of the sidewalk was the road. To prevent passersby from falling ten feet into the stream, a metal fence with a railing was placed there.


I wanted to test my parkour skills, so I stood up on the metal railing and began balancing. I did different small movements with walking back and forth, bending my knees, and standing in place. I was feeling pretty good about myself, and I didn't care to notice that a car was approaching down the road. As the driver rolled by at 30 mph or so, she rolled down her window and yelled at the top of her lungs, "GET DOWN!"


The lady didn't say anything else and kept on going, but that promptly terrified me for a second and I nearly fell off of the railing. I was shaken up because I could have lost my balance which would possibly make me fall ten feet or so into a shallow stream.


I kept on thinking how foolish it was of the driver to do that because I was in a position where I had to be steady and calm and focused. She thought it was a good idea to shout suddenly in a moving vehicle less than five feet from me while I'm elevated in a potentially risky situation.


If you want to scare someone on purpose you would do the things she did. The driver unknowingly threatened my safety by distracting me and spooking me. She was ignorant of the depth of the situation, and I guess she was bothered to see some kid doing parkour in her neighborhood and wanted to express her distaste for my activity.


It was narrow-minded and hazardous of her because she only thought of herself and not the other person who is trying really hard to not concentrate and fall.


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This is an example of an ignorant person, a spectator in this context, being a danger to someone around her. She did not assess the situation correctly and had no empathy for what I was doing nor any care for how her actions could negatively affect me and my safety. I don't say 'empathy' in that she should feel bad, but she should have understanding of what I am doing. If someone's on a roof, you don't sneak up on them and shout close by in an angry tone.


I feel bad for people who have to suffer from that woman's mindset and from others who are so ignorant as to be neglectful of a child's safety because they are so focused on asserting some authoritative angry high ground (no pun intended).


I could go into how ignorant people trash parkour practitioners because they don't understand the sport, but the story has been shared, the point has been articulated, and it's time for me to go to bed.

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#2 •••
@Skipper

Try it again when park is empty and you will feel better.

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#3 •••
@Debby

I don't live by the park anymore. But I do prefer practicing when I'm not around others

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#4 •••
@Skipper

You will be shamed less.

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#5 •••
@Debby

People shame parkour based off of false or poor representations they've witnessed of the activity

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#6 •••
@Skipper

Either way they should learn from their experience.

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#7 •••
@Skipper

Hmmmm.


More parkour stuff Skip.


So you're out there doing balancing acts on railings, next to a road, which in your own words was a potentially risky thing to do.


And a woman drives by and suggests in a loud voice that it might be prudent not to do balancing acts on railings.


Now, taking into account engine noise, I would therefore suggest that yelling was a reasonable modus.


Further, I would suggest that it was highly likely that said woman had no knowledge of your interests and intentions.


And I'm guessing that she didn't fancying hanging around and chatting with a strange youth doing balancing acts on railings.



So, all things considered, and to the average bystander, who's participation in said event is likely to be viewed as the least appropriate?


And quite frankly, who's ongoing reactions are somewhat over the top.


When I was a lout, we'd have just stuck two fingers up at her and carried on.


And I expect that said woman went home, unpacked the groceries, then made herself a coffee and a sandwich and thought about other stuff.


She had probably forgotten about you by the time she had reached the next set of traffic lights.


And yet it's still playing on your mind.


Perhaps you are just too sensitive for parkour.



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#8 •••
@SergeantLynch
And a woman drives by and suggests in a loud voice that it might be prudent not to do balancing acts on railings.


Absolute worst thing to do--distract me while I'm balancing up high. What an idiot.


Now, taking into account engine noise, I would therefore suggest that yelling was a reasonable modus.


Yeah, a reasonable way to communicate with me in order to use words. But that was not smart to do considering it made me lose my balance by shouting suddenly at me. Anyone who respects parkour would not have done what she did. If she had concern about my safety, she went about it completely wrong. As the great Bob Reese Cookiemonster said to a Karen telling him to get down from doing his stunt, "If you really care about my safety, then you will be quiet." Why did he say that? Because the Karen's noise would distract him.


Same thing happened in my situation except the lady was not quiet during my stunt. And look what happens when you distract the parkour man: he loses focus and messes it up which is hazardous to his safety. Anyone knows if you shout at someone and they hear they'll divert attention to you. Why would you want me to be less focused on balancing so I don't fall off? Especially all of a sudden when I'm not prepared to hear you? Inconsiderate and oblivious to my safety.


When I was a lout, we'd have just stuck two fingers up at her and carried on.


Props to you if you could balance after a surprise shout five feet from you from a moving vehicle.


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#9 •••
@Skipper

Blimey Skip, where have you been for the past two months?

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#10 •••
@SergeantLynch


Serving my country https://youtu.be/ygOL88rG8Oc


No, but really I have just been busy with stuff, and I really missed being on here. This is probably my favorite social media platform

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#11 •••
@SergeantLynch

Great that we can add images now. I have a lonely album of dick pics that could really use a good home

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#12 •••
@Skipper

Do you have them in colour?

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#13 •••
@Debby

That's gonna cost you extra

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#14 •••
@Skipper

Let them remain lonely dicks.

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#15 •••

And how old are you now, Skippa?


Maybe it was a natural response since women have maternal instincts. She was just trying to protect that little kid that was doing shit crazy things.

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@Debby
Do you have them in colour?


There was an undoubted element of excitement in your initial response Debs.


Your later downplaying was a tad ineffective, to say the least.



There are plenty of sites that cater for repressed Roman Catholic voyeurism.


Go seek.

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#17 •••
@SergeantLynch

Pictures in color are often perceived as more "exciting" 

due to a combination of biological wiringpsychological associations, and their ability to represent reality more closely than black and white images. 

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#18 •••
@Debby
Let them remain lonely dicks.


FYI, I don't even have any!


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#19 •••

Photos, that is. A dick, there is one

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#20 •••
@Misterio

Nearly 21, but the incident took place in high school.


It's not crazy what I was doing. Honestly just exercising. What I was doing was unorthodox with respect only to the location, but balancing isn't a crazy activity.

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#21 •••
@Skipper

Penguins are known for their good balance. You were just trying to prove you were a penguin.

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