Women: We choose the bear and if a man gets angry at us for that, then he's the reason why! The worst a bear can do is murder.
Me: So are you telling me that a man getting angry at you makes you worse off in your opinion than if a bear murders you?
Because if so, then the easiest ways you can prevent men from being angry at you is either:
- to obey them 100% of the time (except for sexual matters, but if he says be a trad wife at home while earning 50/50, if you don't like that, then you will argue with him and when he responds, you will think he's mad)
- Become asexual so you don't have to deal with men in your home (who inevitably will get mad at you).
Men aren't bound by this; we believe that arguing is not as bad as murder. Women are bound by this because they believe arguing is worse than murder (which is why they choose the bear and merely contest that a man getting mad at them for making this claim is the reason why).
If they merely cite the few men that rape, then this is akin to Trump citing Osama Bin Laden to say why he'd rather be with a bear than a strange Muslim.
The left has turned Xenophobic; at least the KKK owns their xenophobia (and the KKK says generic blacks have low impulse control; the left says that generic men are rapists).
But to be xenophobic is to be right wing. Left wing ideas can never be xenophobic. Left and right wing are totally arbitrary combinations of ideas.
I guess I'm a little xenophobic then; it's called not being a 100% leftist; but maybe 53% or so.