An Irish, an Italian, a Hispanic, and a Black (all men) look at a 4 year old black orphan on the street.
- The Irish said, "This is somebody's child."
- The Italian said, "This is somebody's kid."
- The Hispanic said, "This is somebody else's kid."
- The Black said, "This is somebody else's kid. I ain't raising this shit!"
A gay guy shows up. He says, "Oh; you poor little soul. I'm going to love you for the rest of my life and adopt you from this cold, harsh world".
They all then wait 4 days, see a 4 year old white orphan on the street, they react exactly the same way.
The racial women react 1 level whiter than their male counterparts (the black women react like the Hispanic men, the Hispanic women react like the Italian man, etc). Irish women copy the gay guys. Lesbians didn't bother to comment.
None of these people are racist, but the darker you are and the more masculine you are, the tougher your reaction.
Imagine being a black kid; the vast majority of the time, your parents (if you have both of them) are black. The blacks end up going through a tougher childhood, but they are thicker skinned at the end of it. Every non-white woman that chose the bear is an oreo; they are a product of white culture.