God deals with every person in certain ways.
No one will be lost by what they do or fail to do, they will be lost because they refuse to repent and obey.
Here is the 5 steps God deals with every person about sin.
1: conviction, you feel bad for what you done, you repent and all is made well.
2:chastisement, which often is sickness or affliction, but not always. Hebrews 12:6-8
3: open rebuke, where God will publically show your sin so others can see, that you might be ashamed and repent.
4:Judgement, when God strips you and takes from you, he allows you to reap the sin in your life, which brings loss, destruction or death
5: reprobation, you will not let him save you, so he gives you the mindset to defile and entertain your lusts. Romans 1:28-32 all that awaits you is wrath of God.
Now the bad news.
If you do not hear his voice, if you have never regarded God, if you think God to be fake, foolish or evil. It is likely you no longer feel or hear any of this.
He does not see you as a son, he sees you as an enemy or as wicked.
When God chastens, he loves, and he speaks.
If he hated you, he could remain silent and let you do what you want.
And the only hope you have is in Jesus and to obey psalms 50:23.
Repent and obey, there is no other way.