Love is not just a means of expression, it takes many forms, not all of them are an evil, though they can be manifested selfishly.
Agapetos. The selfless love of God is a shelter, it is a banner, a place of safety and strength. Not only a place of vulnerability and truth, but a place where your weaknesses are not dispised, where you dont have to be a hero, but a vessel.
Love that is selfless demands sacrifice and openness, and with it, it grants both parts an opportunity to become greater to each other, to explore and intimately know someone deeper.
Song of solomon 2:1-4
1I am the rose of Sharon, and the lily of the valleys.
2 As the lily among thorns, so is my love among the daughters.
3 As the apple tree among the trees of the wood, so is my beloved among the sons. I sat down under his shadow with great delight, and his fruit was sweet to my taste.
4 He brought me to the banqueting house, and his banner over me was love.
Love is a house of strength, a place to share joy and riches together.