Captainhook

Only a therapist or a psychiatrist can diagnose you with anti-social personality disorder and give you insight what's going on in your head.


Anyone saying you're a sociopathic aren't professionals and don't need to take their comments seriously. Only professionals can help you understand.


There is several reasons why a person may lack guilt or show lack of remorse.


Emotional numbness can cause a person to feel detached from their emoitions.


Narcissistic disorders.


Other forms of personality disorders.


You need to speak to a professional to get a more accurate or more practical source to understand what's going on.



Captainhook

There is no such thing as "non-violent rapist"


All rape is violent.


People opinions on topics isn't rape. They're being sexist, not rapist.


Bear 🐻 anology tends to go over men heads and act as if women are saying every single man are rapist. Completely not understanding the simple logic and choosing to ignore women fears. Instead they act as if it's an attack on them when women are saying they fear men more then a bear.


Bear anology

Woman perspective: rather be attacked by a Bear who only want to survive over a man who wants to humilate you/degrade you.


Bear only attacks out of instincts.

A man attacks out of pure malice intentions.


If you still don't understand.


There is 10 grapes 🍇

3 of them are poisonous

7 of them are safe.

You don't know what one are bad.


Do you risk taking one? After all majority are safe and likely hood aren't going to affect you.


This is what women are saying. They're not saying all men are dangerous. They're saying that they don't want to risk it.


Realistically, if a person was in a position of risking a bear introduction or a man introduction. They would pick a man due to survival bias.


The purpose was a hypothetical question where women were simply expressing that they fear men over bears.


Women experience SA 1 out of 4

Men 1 out of 9


Most perpetrators are men who commit SA.


What i notice is men think more align of % of survival chance.


Women think more align with what is the worse outcome.


As a woman here. My chances of surviving a male attacks vs Bear attacks is basically non-existent. 99% likely hood of dying in both scenarios. I rather be killed by a Bear 🐻 because at least then im dying for survival purposes of the bear then fed a sexual fantasy or fulfilling a man's devious fantasy like Ted Bundy.


Do I get eaten alive or do I get emotionally and physically tortured by a man until he done with me. Even then, continue to abuse my corpse.

Captainhook

https://www.debatecraft.com/forum/c/politics/posts/ra/women-and-rape?comment_number=47


Biology and nature in the term "sex for procreation" is a nuance

*Only true to a spefic species*. Not "nuance" .got my word mix up.

Captainhook
Whereas the base necessity of hormone driven sexuality is a signal to procreate...

Just adding this here


Homosexuality, bisexuality and other forms of Sexualities disprove your whole point.


Males can have romantic feelings towards other males as well as females to females.


Humans aren't the only species to even perform same sex relationships.


Perfect example: Albatrosses




Captainhook

Go look up what "love" is scientific. You're now being dismissive. It's a clear indication you don't know how the human body works. I provided resources and a general definition of "oxytocin". You're literally now just being naive as a refusal to learn or even research. This is my last reply.


Hormones have influence on emoitions as well as rely on hormones to maintain stability aka "Storotin". Humans rely on hormones to function properly.


https://neurolaunch.com/serotonin-vs-dopamine-vs-oxytocin/


Serotonin, dopamine, and oxytocin are often referred to as the brain’s happiness trio, playing crucial roles in regulating our mood, emotions, and overall well-being. These three neurotransmitters work in concert to influence various aspects of our mental and physical health, from our sleep patterns to our social interactions.


https://diversedaily.com/oxytocin-and-social-bonding-the-role-of-peptide-modulation-in-trust-and-affiliation/


Oxytocin, often celebrated as the ‘love hormone,’ plays a pivotal role in various aspects of human behavior and social interaction. Discovered in the early 20th century, this neuropeptide is synthesized in the hypothalamus and subsequently transported to the posterior pituitary gland, from where it is released into the bloodstream and the central nervous system. It is primarily known for its role in childbirth and lactation; however, its influence extends far beyond these biological functions.

In humans, oxytocin is implicated in fostering social bonding and enhancing emotional connections. Research indicates that this peptide significantly modulates trust, empathy, and attachment between individuals. For instance, its release during interactions such as hugging or bonding experiences can intensify feelings of closeness and enhance interpersonal relationships. Furthermore, studies have suggested that oxytocin administration may increase pro-social behaviors, making individuals more inclined to form connections with others.


Read here more about sex and how it effects people

https://mindlabneuroscience.com/brain-chemicals-during-sex/


We aren't plants. Plants don't have cognitive functions. Plants are multicelluar photosynthetic organisms

Humans are homo-sapiens who are sentient beings.


https://humanorigins.si.edu/education/introduction-human-evolution


The only social concept of sex for procreation is mainly found in religion and certain cultures.


Biology and nature in the term "sex for procreation" is a nuance. Their is no strict binary code to state sex is solely for reproduction. Many animals including us perform sex acts beyond the reason for babies. Masterbation, oral sex, social bonding ect...


There even animals that don't need males or sex for making babies. Called "parthenogenesis"


Humans literally perform sex acts beyond baby purposes.





Captainhook

Abuse is abuse regardless who the person is.


I'm not questioning you haven't ran into toxic women.


I'm stating when it comes to overall abuse. Men make the majority.

Captainhook

Here is a simple link.


Humans have wide ranges of behaviors switch includes using sex for pleasure.


Humans are animals

humans have libidos

Humans have interest in sex beyond reproduction.


simple logic.


https://www.mediumspot.com/why-sex-is-essential-for-humans-biological-psychological-and-social-reasons/


a) Pleasure, bonding & psychological benefits
Sex triggers release of neurotransmitters (oxytocin, dopamine, endorphins) which contribute to pleasure, bonding, intimacy, stress relief, mood regulation, etc.
For many couples, it strengthens emotional connection and social/relational ties.
Captainhook

You're still factual wrong.


Love is a hormone called oxytocin.


Human nature since creation as always used sex for pleasure.


We simply understand the abstract reasons why we do what we do.


Like or not. Humans use sex for many reasons. That's is fact.


We have a thing called a sex drive aka libido.


Humans also have primal instincts but we aren't strictly govern by it .


Everytime you flinch=primal instincts

Sexual attractions=primal instincts

Death or a threat of danger= instincts reaction (look below)

Fight, flight, or freeze=instincts


Your brain produces hormones that influence your emotions output.


Storotin hormone is a mood stabilizer. Low amounts = feelings of depression, irritability ect..


The only construct of "sex for reproduction" only exists in religion culture.



Captainhook

It's not for solely purposes of reproduction.


It's factual untrue.


Sex produces hormones. The "love hormone" called oxytocin is produced from sex and other situations.


"Oxytocin is a hormone that facilitates childbirth, lactation, and social bonding, while also influencing trust, attachment, and emotional well-being."


When you develop a bond with a friend of family member. Your brain produces hormones like dopamine. These hormones ensure you have a bond as humans are social creatures.


Sex between partners is what is known as "love making" because it's about feelings close and intimate.


Our closes animal relatives (share 95% DNA as humans) like chimpanzees and Bonobos also use sex in different forms.


Humans are homo-sapiens in a primate family.


Even non-primate animals use sex for different reasons like dominace, pleasure, creation ect..


Snails, and dolphins 🐬 for example.


The notion "sex only for reproduction" is untrue in nature as it's seen in many species sex used outside the spectrum of reproduction.


The "sex for procreation" is only found in religious beliefs. Not biological or nature.

Captainhook

You said because you had a gf who wanted consistently be in touch with you and being a "punching bag" from this woman in your conclusion that all women are abusive and controlling.


Statistics show that males ranked the highest perpetrators of abuse.


There are women abusers but there is more male abusers vs women.


I experience SA, abuse from men. That doesn't constitute now i should say that all men are bad because I ran into bad men.



Captainhook

Photo of a x comment is not proof.


https://sexualassaultsupport.ca/statistics-sexual-violence-in-canada/



Captainhook

Sex is not just for procreation. Not even animals strictly follow this notion. Look at our closes relatives of other primates like chimpanzees where they use sex to resolve conflicts and bond.


Sex is a good way to social bond with partners. It's not pointless. It serves a multiple purpose.

Captainhook

Seems you're forming a conclusion based on a ancodtal experience.


Highest victims of DV are females.

Highest victims of SA: LGBT community and females.

When males get SA. The majority are males who commit that against other males.


Males make up the majority of the perpetrators of acts of aggression and abuse.


Yes, there is female abusers but overall. Males are the ones who are aggressive.

Captainhook

It's not "jury be on the side of the rapist".


Reason why they don't get charged is due to lack of sufficient evidence against them.


When you're SA you have to get

1. Proof sex occurred.

2. Signs of truama in the gentelia area.

3. DNA on or in.

4. Witness

5. If the accused confesses the crime.


Then you have to agrue if the sex was simply rough or rape. This makes it harder to prove rape occurred.


Judge can't rely on he said she said. They have to form a judgment based on evidence.


It's not being on a side and more about not having solid evidence to get a conviction.