No its not at all the same. People who say they are "spiritual" do it for selfish reasons.
People are spiritual beacuse they're tired of all the fuckery religions teach.
Spirituality is not so different to religiousity. I'd argue the only difference is that spirituality is a very personal path, whereas religiousity implies a hierarchical organization and so it's mandatory to obey and not question anything it's told.
Spirituality is more flexible, more intuitive. It's not tied to what a book that nobody knows how it appeared says. Spirituality doesn't coerse, religions do. Spirituality doesn't judge, religions do.
I'd be glad to know in what way spiritual people are selfish.