Penguin Classics Tao Te Ching
XIII 13
Favor and disgrace are things that startle;
High rank is, like one's body, a source of great
trouble.
What is meant by saying that favor and disgrace are
things that startle? Favor when it is bestowed on a subject
serves to startle as much as when it is withdrawn. This is
What is meant by saying that favor and disgrace are things
that startle. What is meant by saying that high rank is, like
one's body, a source of great trouble? The reason I have
great trouble is that I have a body. When I no longer have
a body, what trouble have I?
Hence he who values his body more than domination over
the empire can be entrusted with the empire. He who
loves his body more than domination over the empire can be
given the custody of the empire.
. . .
I understand that what one doesn't have, one can't fear to lose.
Opposite of better to have loved and lost, than never loved at all.
Of course some people are better off giving up certain circumstances, if those circumstances cause them anxiety.
Though a person could also just grow stronger 'by those circumstances.
I suppose that having a focus on honor as defined by others, can make one beholden to others in a sense.
Your self identity depending on 'other people's values, ideas, words.
Or have one's perception or values twisted by others or a pursuit of honor.
One might 'lose honor if one acquires it.
But again, I don't think that is 'wrong by itself. Just 'can be wrong.
Humans are social animals, highly effected and valuing peer pressure.
We 'rely on other humans to a large degree, to check our own mental state, sense of delusion.
Why 'shouldn't honor be something sought or given?
Ideally it rewards the worthy and shines a light on them for other people to emulate their actions.
Honor is generally seen as having behaved worthily,
What's 'wrong with enjoying the acclaim of others?
That we might 'lose their acclaim?
I think life is gain and loss,
There is much nice to acquire in it, even if it may or must be lost someday.
It's nice while one has it, nice to look back on, or forward to.
A reason to move.
I still am a materialist, and think I 'am but this body.
I see a number of translation differences online about the empire/world and the body.