SatanLucy

And just to be clear, I am not homophobic. If I saw two men doing butt sex stuff, I would not try to intervene by attempting to pull his dick out of butt. I would merely tell them that what they are doing is not logical.

SatanLucy
Same thing just written in a different font.


Nope.


I feel the same about bigots, but I also understand they exist in the great wide world which is outside my personal authority.


Your feelings are of no importance.



Are you referring to conversion therapy? That's not a real therapy. Its a pretense ignorant people cling to that does nothing but cause harm. If you allowed reality to inform your opinions and had empathy for others you wouldn't suggest such a cruel and pointless torture.


No, not conversion therapy, but simply when gay man hides his homosexuality, tells no one ever about it, stops imagining men, stops looking at men, and looks only at women. Because attraction is based on looks, he must stop looking at things which attract him but which are not logical.



SatanLucy
Willfully ignorant, then? Okay.


No, just rejecting fake experts.



If you think being straight is a choice, then you're probably not straight.


False conclusion.


Fwiw, choosing not to have sex isn't the same as choosing sexuality.


Maybe, but I have no problem with gays who choose to never have sex and keep their gayness secret and never tell anyone about it, and also work to cure their sexual attraction. So choosing to express homosexuality is still a choice. But being a homosexual is also a choice, because man can stop being attracted to men if he chose not to look at them ever and just focus on observing women. then his sexual attraction would adapt over years.

SatanLucy
So to use an example if you said that individuals in that community have a mental disorder, and their were negative affects such as suicide rates, hate crimes, or unfair work treatment then you could probably make a case this would be a form of hate speech.


Not really. Speech having a few negative effects doesnt mean speech should be banned. Otherwise, all speech would be banned, because anyone can determine anything as negative effect. And speech doesnt need to translate to action, so its irrelevant. One can ban negative action without banning speech.



Now in the U.S. this isn’t prohibited from saying but companies and online platforms have a right to block certain things to prevent harm. I look at it similar to YouTube terms of service. If you don’t want to follow certain guideline then you don’t have to use the platform. Now if we are talking about saying something in your own place, out somewhere, at a protest, or just out anywhere it’s your constitutional right. Now where I may agree with you is that I don’t think there should be limits on this. For example I don’t think sites should restrict thoughts because it furthers the divide. Scholars such as Ambrose mention that it takes a while to change long standing ideas someone was raised in. So even though hateful speech sucks, it should be allowed so discussions could happen. Silencing it, just amplifies the other side. Then we get nowhere, because both sides are going to fight to control certain platforms.


I agree there.

SatanLucy
When if all that is needed is to achieve a specific recreational outcome, then masturbation will suffice


Yes, there is no reason why gay people should act on their urges, because its harmful.


Gay, bisexual, and other men who have sex with men (MSM) experience higher rates of certain sexually transmitted diseases (STDs). For example, MSM are disproportionately affected by syphilis, gonorrhea, chlamydia, and HIV.


This demographic remains the most significantly affected by HIV. According to the NIH HIVinfo fact sheet, male-to-male sexual contact accounts for over 65% of new HIV diagnoses.



Whereas if the intended outcome is gamete fusion, then at some point it will be necessary to fuse male and female gametes.


Yeah, I am a perfectly straight white male. Perfectly straight. that means I am attracted to females. And yes, male and female produce a baby. Male and male produce nothing.

SatanLucy


SkepticalOne wrote:
But anyway, my question is why should person be gay?

Again, you wrongly assume a person can decide to be different than things completely outside their control prescribed.

But you seem to be insisting that being gay isnt a choice, which it is.
Did you choose to be straight? If not, why would you think anyone does? Are you relying on your own limited experience here or are you open to being informed by a consensus of experts? If the latter, the American Psychological Association does not endorse the notion that orientation is a choice. [X]


First, I don't care much about what your "experts" say, so you just wasted your time finding that link.

Second, yes being straight is a choice too. So is being gay. Person can choose not to act on it.

SatanLucy
Ahh, so the standard "criticisms apply to thee but not to me" line of thinking. Nice.


No, it applies to both by default, until we figure out if person should be straight or gay or without sexual orientation.

SatanLucy
There is no logical reason for you to make that claim.


Yes, there is, I want knowledge.



Being gay is not a choice and, as such, looking for a 'logical reason' is nonsensical. Its like looking for a logical reason to be 10 foot tall.


I can see logical reasons for being 10 foot tall. But you seem to be insisting that being gay isnt a choice, which it is.


But anyway, my question is why should person be gay? Shouldnt person try to cure himself of it, because its not what person wants.

SatanLucy

The only limit on free speech which I agree to is limiting speech which aims to shame women. I believe in sexism and chivalry. I fully support discrimination based on sex and gender. If a man says something stupid, he should be put to shame immediately. But if a woman says something even more stupid, she should not be put to shame because she is a woman. Same applies to trans women, because once person admits that she is a woman or transitions into a woman, she should be protected and be treated better than men. In same way, I support women getting paid more than men even if they do a worse job. If a woman commits rape or murder, she should get at least 5x lower sentence than man would get. Because it's sexism.

SatanLucy
Speech is action. Saying "I believe X" is actively defending that X is true. You are making a claim to know something as fact, and that can influence people around you. It's a shitty argument because just you're just saying it's true, but reputation is an argument that people believe all the time.
Action doesn't have to be outwardly aggressive or violent to harm. Even something as small as the way you look at someone and the words you choose can hurt people. Your thoughts are your beliefs. Your beliefs guide your actions.


This is probably the most annoying argument against free speech I ever read. It basically amounts to "words can hurt my feelings, so words bad". And yeah, debating is a battleground, as I said. However, feelings aren't under any special protection. We are also not gonna ban speech which you think has some small chance of causing harm, because all speech in debates has a chance to cause harm.


Interesting, when did airmax die and put you in charge?


Airmax is our owner, and his will guides us on the battlegrounds of this site.



Or, y'know, just hang out and shoot the shit. Kill time. Maybe learn something. Play games. Talk about manga?


Sure, that too, but let's not forget why we are really here, and it's to put each other to shame through exchange of words. This site isn't a safe space. It never was. It never will be. Maybe we can create a special safe space on this site, I guess group therapy would be a nice addition. I love trolling group therapy chats.

SatanLucy
That's not logical. Maybe you're not gay, but it doesn't follow to assume a universal standard because of that.


False, there is no reason for anyone to be gay.



True. Sexual orientation is not a logical deduction or choice


So you concede that being gay is not logical. We agree there.


So if anyone else wants to answer why should I be gay, they can try.


SatanLucy

What I don't like about LGBTQP+ is that it isn't logical.


When I say that it isn't logical, I am saying that there is no logical reason why person should be gay.


Why should I be gay?


If there is no reason for me to be gay, then there is no reason for anyone to be gay.


You simply cannot use logical deduction to deduce that you should be gay.


I don't think I should be gay. I don't feel gay. So I don't support LGBTQP+, because they don't support me as a perfectly straight male, they didn't add "straight" to their alphabet.


So not only that they can't logically deduce conclusion that they should be gay, but they are also racist against straight people.

SatanLucy

Also, just to be clear, this site isn't any safe space. We are not doing any group therapy thing here. This is not a space where you can say something and receive compassion, or throw a pity party for yourself. On this site, users fight against each other's words for dopamine activation in their brain. There is no mercy for the weak!

SatanLucy
The problem with hate speech is it's never just "speech", since it's reflective of your beliefs and actions. If you say something like "homosexuality/being transgender is a mental disorder", congratz that's what you believe. You just admitted to treating people differently. It is speech that's reflective of how you interact with others, which is action.


All speech can lead to action, but doesn't mean it will, so this is irrelevant.


I can say that trans people have a mental disorder while I still treat trans people just fine. Tho personally, I don't think mental disorders even exist. People literally just made it up.

SatanLucy

Bosnia is in world cup too. this time I hope we win and dont embarrass ourselves on world stage.


We need to beat Switzerland and Qatar. Switzerland is stronger than us on paper, but we are pretty famous for beating top players from time to time, and this time we have new players who excel.

SatanLucy

My recent deliveries were successful. I got tokyo ghoul 8 volumes, blade of immortal 12 volumes, Uzumaki all 3 volumes....


I keep a list, so here is what I have so far:


A. 11 total


1. Gyo

2. Blade of immortal

3. Demon slayer

4. One piece

5. Death note

6. Battle angel

7. tokyo revengers

8. tokyo revengers

9. No longer human

10. No longer human

11. No longer human



B.


11x tokyo revengers



C. 16 total

8x tokyo ghoul

3x One piece

1x Confession

1x Old boy

2x Bestiarius

1x Black butler



D. 12 total


12x Blade of immortal



E. 16 total


3x Uzumaki


13x death note

SatanLucy
"Feel free to make suggestions! Unless your suggestions aren't what I want, in which case shut the fuck up."


No, I am not gonna poop on your suggestions. I already said I agree that too many new things at once could cause confusion.